The Burden of Tipping: How to Prioritize Year-End Gifts Without Breaking the Bank
Whether you call it “tip creep” or “tipflation,” Americans are feeling the squeeze as they’re asked to tip more and more, leaving them tired and stressed out. According to a recent survey, 6 in 10 adults view tipping negatively, and 35% believe things have gotten “out of control.”
The holiday season adds an extra layer of complexity as many of us want to express gratitude to the people who make our lives easier throughout the year, often in the form of a year-end gift or gratuity. However, with budgets stretched thin due to rising prices, tipping everyone on the holiday gift lists can be a daunting task.
Experts suggest laying out a total budget for holiday tipping and prioritizing those who deal directly with making your family life easier. Nannies, babysitters, and pet sitters, for example, are great candidates for holiday appreciation.
Another approach is to acknowledge professionals you interact with regularly but don’t usually tip, such as a door attendant or a building superintendent. These individuals are essential to your daily life and deserve recognition during the holiday season.
The key is to prioritize good tipping practices without overspending, says etiquette expert Thomas Farley. “Good tipping feels good for everyone involved,” he notes. “Tipping that takes you beyond your budget will never feel good.”
To simplify the process, experts recommend starting with a total gratuity budget and prioritizing those who bring the most value to your life. Remember, it’s okay to say no to extravagant tipping and focus on making thoughtful, meaningful gestures.